Today, I had a lesson that just went NOWHERE with students - it totally bombed.
I felt a gamut of emotions. I felt very frustrated, because I did not feel that this class connected with me or with the lesson at all. It was also hard not to take "personally," since it was a lesson which I created - was there a personalized connection factor missing which I had neglected? However, on the other hand, when I took a step back from it all, I actually did not see it as that big of a deal, because I realized "Okay, tomorrow is a new day, and I can start over from scratch."
After 28 years of teaching, I have come to accept that daily I deal with over 100 variables known as students, and then throw in another variable which is me. There are going to be days where I am on, and students are off. There will be days where I am off, and students are on. There will be days where both students and I are off (I consider those a win-win day, because we all can start over the next day from scratch). But then there are those golden days where both students and I are on. I do not take those days for granted.
It is okay to have a lesson which bombs with students, and the sooner you accept that, the easier it is to deal with. As teachers, we want to hit homeruns every day with our students, but that is absolutely not realistic at all. Give yourself permission to strike out or to get hit by a ball! We must learn to manage our own personal expectations of ourselves. When we realize that teaching is a marathon and not a sprint, we learn to pace ourselves emotionally. Teaching is like grilling brisket - it goes low and slow.
FYI - for the next class, I quickly retooled the lesson. It worked a bit better but still did not garner the reception/engagement which I wanted. But you know what - that is okay!